Last Saturday we had a huge rain storm. I mentioned that our drum rehearsal was cancelled and then Caitlin messaged to say she was going to pop by for a chat. I had not seen her in a while so it was good to catch up with her and hear about what is happening in her life.
On Sunday when we woke it was bitterly cold, slightly overcast and dry. We had decided the previous night that we would pop over to exchange the cushions I bought at Mr Price which did not go with our sofas. First I was spoiled with a couple of coffees in bed while I snuggled with the pets. Eventually I got up and showered and got dressed to go out. I went out onto my hill to say my prayers and while in the East, I said that I apologised for doubting the next day’s planned solo quest and our group’s decision to re-schedule. It was completely clear skies but as I said this, the heavens opened and it poured huge pelting rain drops!
Finn and I got completely drenched. I love that the Universe is trying to accommodate my newly discovered ADHD and responded instantly.
We decided to skip Mr Price to return my pillows, the miserable weather made us decide to build a big fire and watch a movie. Norm popped over on Monday to take them back.
On Sunday afternoon Mark and Hunter came for a visit as Norm wanted to chat to him about the quotes we had received for replacing the windows at the front of the house. Finn was thrilled to see his bestie, Hunter seemed like he was not in the mood for Finn’s nonsense. Pixie of course was sitting and gazing adoringly at both Mark and Hunter. Panda clung to me or Norm.
I found it interesting that I started out with a full schedule, then went to a free weekend then ended up with someone popping by on Friday, Saturday and Sunday! My diary was as fickle as the Cape Town weather.
Speaking of diaries, I finally made a decision about our book club and I dropped out. The woman who started it asked the group who was still keen as several women had dropped out and we needed to plan the next event. When she asked, a few of the other women left and I decided that was the universe telling me to jump. I find a Monday is not a day I ever feel like going out or entertaining and the start time of 6 does not suit our lifestyle either. Last month it was held here and from my personal perspective it was better as I made sure I had plenty of food for my dinner, but I do not want to host each month and many women do not have the space to host. I have other connections with most of the women, the other women never made any effort to interact with me so it does not matter. You can say I did not make the effort either, but I am the queen of awkwardness. If it is not an organic connection, then they will most likely not get me. And that is also fine! As my daughter says to me, I cannot worry about what other people think about me, I must do what is right for me. I love it when my children parent me.
I have signed up to go to a Secret Event. I cannot give a link. There are a group of 5 women my age and a young friend, I said she will look like our carer. There is a DJ and a guided meditation, it sounds quite fun.
That is only happening next weekend but I am looking forward to it.
On Tuesday and Thursday I went to my yoga class. I definitely feel like I am getting stronger and better balanced. Either way I am proud of myself for sticking it out. It is such a lovely group of women and the teacher is just a wonderful human and a great teacher. A friend has now joined the group too so that is nice as well.
On Tuesday night when I got home from yoga Norm cooked me a gorgeous dinner. He marinated a fillet in teriyaki and grilled that with some halloumi, air fryer chips and a really nice salad.
He also popped home with some proteas when he went to the shop just because he saw them and he knows I love them. He never fails to show me he loves me. I am one lucky woman and I know that.
On Wednesday Vanessa came to do my pedicure. I love having it done in my own home, cuddling a pom in my PJs. What could be better?
This afternoon I hosted the Women’s Social club and I made way too many snacks for them as there was was just 3 of us but it was cosy and lovely. We sat at the bar and nibbled and Tam built a big fire for us. Eventually the sun came out and we ended up outside which always makes me happy!
We had a wander around my fairy garden and it was so funny that they did not even know it existed!
Finn was his exuberant self but he did settle down and lay at our feet for long periods. We all talked about what is going on with us and of course we always analyse everything from every angle and flip every concept on it’s head. Analysts and Empaths, a scary combo heh?
I had to remain sober today as tomorrow is my solo quest from my Path of the White Wolf course. I will also fast tonight and then tomorrow I will be sitting fasting and meditating in the Milkwood forest.
I cannot wait to tell you all about what it is like. I am very excited but also a little frightened but that is always me with the unknown. I am a brave little wuss. Always frightened, but usually brave enough to do it anyway. My car is packed up with all the bits and pieces I was told to bring and I hope I have everything I need. I am hardly the camping sort of girl, despite loving my garden I want to sleep in a bed at night and sit on a comfy seat when relaxing.
We have had ups and downs in regards to load-shedding. It has been such a pain in the arse remembering to check the schedule and catering for it or working around it. Last night it went off at 10pm and so at 9:45 I took the dogs out for their last pee, carried the poms off to bed, turned out all of the lights and I just sat on our upstairs outside balcony in the dark. It was quite peaceful and seeing as there was a break-in just up the hill from us the other night I am being extra cautious and not sitting outside like I usually do. Upstairs is very safe.
Mark is taking Finn for an overnight playdate tonight so that I do not have to worry about him tomorrow. I am going to have a quiet evening relaxing and being focused on tomorrow’s quest. Wish me luck. ❤️💜💚
Kisses from the Kitten xoxoxoxo
Kitten in the City 